I do not have proof, she just said that she wanted me to be able to do essential stuff to our house and was glad that she could help us for once.
The house was sold in October
The money went into our bank account.
At the time of the money coming to us my mother was not ill and not needing care, she had the stroke in febuary this year and its only realised now that she will need care as she has not made much progress. also she recieves nearly £1000 in pension per month so she will be paying a good chunk towards her care every omnth, would this make a difference? Also we have had the work carried out on the house so do not have the money and we do not earn enough to help pay towards her care, would this make a difference?