No she didn't.
I don't know where to rate your answer...I am quite satisfied so far.
It's been going on quite a few months, she says she is going to say 2 or 3 times per week.
She stays with the boyfriend. Her house is a small semi...the boys have to share a small bedroom, she has her own.
Her boyfriend's is a 3-bed detached, she thought it healthier for the boys.
The relationship is now going through some difficulties and looks likely to finish soon.
Thank you for that good information, scary though it is. Facts are better than dreams.
It may have been going on six, max seven months. Would that alter your advice?