My children are 3 years and 18 months.
It's more f the destabilising influence they have on their mother.
ive seen he jab her self with a screw driver while on the phone to him when he at the time was rejecting her. He's very manipulative and controlling. Of a restraining order is out of the question is there any other action I could take to protect the children.
she moved them away to Cornwall, I currently love in Hampshire in our family home. She has moved in with her mother.
I was considering taking my children back home what would the implications be?
My wife moved a week ago and until then I did most of the child care as my wife worked more hours than me
For example I looked after them Tuesday Wednesday Thursday and friday during the day I worked monday fri evening and sat 10 - 3
We did, it just seemed easier because I have to sort the house out not to have the kids there. I think there is always that idea that woman are better careers but since I have though about it more ie realised that may be better of in their family home
ATM the plan is that I will be moving down to the area but I will be renting a room..we haven't actually agreed on a plan just yet
Within 4 weeks of now
Not sure I'm just keeping my options open. I am standing in the local election, its unlikely I will one but if I did that then I would be tempted to stay. He only reason my wife has moved to Cornwall is to be near this guy and her family.
I believe my wife is at a point whether she decides to go for a relationship with this guy or not. It's really has very little to so with the fact that I feel betrayed I honestly don't want someone with so many issues suddenly around my two boys. Especially after the turmoil and upheaval they have gone through recently.