Hello I am a solicitor and have over 15 years experience. I will try to help you with this.
Have you signed a statement saying that you r ex had sex with you without your consent and has he been arrested?
I didnt make a full statement I dont believe as I did not want to support it but they wrotedown in the report what I had said and got me to sign that. They didn't hhowever read bk to me the car incident and gave me the option to sign that but by the time that happened the police had confused me for pushing me into a rape sweep.i brought it down to a sex allegation as it wasn't what I was there for. It seemed a little like they wanted this as I was going to drop this on him and that if I signed the car situation it would be abuse of power? . Where do I stand with the police doing this ?
I don't want to go into the details form the bedroom but just so that you are properly informed a person is guilty of rape if they have sex with another person, that other person did not consent and the suspect should have known that they were not consenting.
You have clearly been the victim of harassment and turned to the police for support. The criminal justice system is supposed to be victim centred these days and the police should be responsive to your wants and needs here. Has there been a reply from the inspector to your complaint? Is there a specific inspector you have complained to and why did you chose this officer to complain to? I a not sure quite what you mean by abuse of power in your reply above.
Is he on bail with a requirement to keep away from you? Is what you want here protection from harassment by your ex?
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I have support tomorrow now that my parents are hk.
I have support tomorrow as parents bk from holiday. I chose the inspector to complain to as I felt uneasy in tbe station with all officers as they knew him n didn't know if I was being treated ffairly. I will get bk to you later on if I need further advice. I felt y
OK. let me know if you need more answers.