My concern is when my father dies I will be on my own entirely as well as homeless as at present I am carer for my father and it is in his name only.
Things as I said have worsened significantly between me and my remaining next of kin my sister
My sister and brother-in-law are the only ones at present who legally are responsible to sort out my fathers finances.
I want to rectify this not necesarilly change them as executors of his will.
I also wish my father to leave specific written instructions over his funeral arrangements and subsequent intornment of his and my mothers ashes which he has done verbally to me and i have passed onto my brother in law
This is predominantly where the problems started before if you understand fully
My brother - in - law Richard sorted out my deceased mothers financial affairs on the say so of my father.
My only sister also helped to sort this out to a lesser extent.
My sister has since unfortunately had a nervous breakdown and my father is 85 and very undecisive getting more forgetful and bad tempered etc.
I am my fathers carer his only son Peter
No they are the executors of his will.
My sister is NOT compus mentus in my opinion after a nervous breakdown and is now on medication