It was agreed through a solicitor, not the courts, can't find the copy letter but i'm sure it should have been reviewed.
Hi, no we never went to court for maintenance, it was amicable at the time, the children are now 21 and 18 years old.
My point is that I could only do part-time hours so that I could look after his sons and his company wouldn't be as successful if the children had lived with him as he only had them once a week, he spent most of his time at work. I couldn't afford to go to work full-time as the child care costs were astronomical and the £400 per month wouldn't even cover them.
I have re-married and my current husband has provided for them for the last 15 years.
I have only recently realised how stupid I have been and I should of contacted the CSA years ago.