My youngest is 8, he'll be 9 on August 8th.
The other is 10, 11 on 12th November.
Alternate Saturdays is fine with them and me. Before this he was always cancelling. This way it means they get to see him on a regular basis. My problem is the pick up. For school I have always picked them up at 7.30 on the Sunday night. By him not letting me have them until 8pm, despite me saying he couldn't have them longer, is not on. He thinks he can change times whenever he feels like it. What I want to know is can I stop this?