Thank you for your reply Clare - Yes, I have discussed the problem with the home. Fortunately I did say I hoped there would be no trouble from the family, when I admitted him.
The home has a policy of 'Family and friends may visit anytime and outings may be organised according to their (residents) wishes and abilities'.
My husband of course does not know what day it is and is unable to make up his mind about anything.
The hospital have said they are prepared to support me in saying that he was admitted on their advice for the safety and protection of both of us.
I have told the family this but they refuse to co-operate.
Yes, Clare, it is.
Thank you very much for your advice Clare.