I found out my wife is been in an internet relationship over three years with very sexual explicit mails telephon calls and once they encounter not knowing what really happened... I asked for the divorce... Do i have any grounds to protect my self...?
we have three kids age 5, 9 and 12. we are marriege and we got everything 50/50 and we are self employs under a partnership...we own our house and have a lot of debts. if we get divorce Im afraid I can lose everything cause law protect primary the woman and Im mexican with permanet residence. now she is finding excuses.
I need to know how can i be in a better possicion after separation. or if this grounds are strong enough
this is one of many mails:
On Mon, 30/5/11, Karen Murillo <*****@******.***> wrote:From: Karen Murillo <*****@******.***>Subject: oh christopher.......!!To: *****@******.***Date: Monday, 30 May, 2011, 22:10Oh christopher.....If you wd have only written back all those years ago.......I cd have been urs all this time, cooking sunday dinner, arguing over football, and having fabulous sex!!!! But, alas, both our lack of words led to our 'drift apart' and now we're paying for it!! ***k I cd scream, at both of us, and inside over the years I have done - many times! I have so much to say to you now, that I don't know where to start.....or stop for that matter lol!!But, years later, and I married & had 3 kids which sooooo complicates matters. All this time I kind of 'got on with life' thinking for sure you wd have found someone to marry & start a family too, so I resisted the growing urge to contact you until....god bless facebook!!! (And the rest you pretty much know!)........To be continued!!!! (Preferably between the sheets lol!!!!!) XxxxxxxxxxKind regards
I meant can I get custody and/or resolution in my favor and the house with this kind of prooff? (the mail that I copy in my last question)
is not only one mail but severals and the relationship its been going now for three years!!! though telephone, facebook, texts, and secret meetings!!!
its all in several mails