no not yet I am just discovering my options at ghe moment to ensure I make the right decision for me and more importantly my son.myself and my ex are amicable ay the moment. But she doesn't be doing anything to provide for myson including her time. I am keeping logs of yhings that happen. But legally I dont know where I stand if I make a decision like moving with my son...
The routine the we have had decided by her is for me to have our son 5-6 nights a week and every weekend. Her parents will have him on Tuesday day and night and wed day and sometimes the night. My ex has him a Monday daytime Thursday daytime and Friday daytime. Even when she has a night of work like a Thursday night she still wont have him. She hasnt put him to bed for a month now. Obviously im not only asking myself what is right to do for my son and myself. But im also asking myself whats legally and morally right for me to do.
Yes of course I would allow them access as much as they would like. Ie weekends and holidays. I would even drive my son back to my ex and pick him up as she does not drive.
My pure motivation for this is to provide a stable life for my son if my ex does not want to. My mum is retired and in her late 50s and is a trained health visitor. The schools are fantastic in that area. Basically if im to do thus on my own there are more pros than cons to move.