I am not sure how many as I did send some one liners and there had been no response. She did keep me in her friends circle up until three weeks ago though.
Roughly 5 or 10 e-mails per month probably?! But I did carry on sending them as I could see my name kept her in circle of friends, up until last week. The theme was mostly giving updates on my job search, how much I missed her etc. There were no threats or abuse.
Also, this may help too. I had sent her a present about 2-3 months ago, a pair of diamond earrings and she responded via text to say she cant accept it and wanted to return it but nothing was sent back, only to make me assume she was still interested. She had also accepted a lot of flowers sent by me between January this year till July this year.
Shall I take solicitor with me or use the one they provide or none at all and answer the questions frankly?
And in the case of going to court, what sentence are we talking about? will this affect my professional work? I am an accountant.
This was the last response from the case officer;