Hi. My son is 20 months old and his dad sees him on a regular basis. Although its when he wants to and if I disagree he threatens me. I'm trying to work in a schedule that is consistent but his father keeps insinuating that I'm trying to keep his son away from him. I'm worried about my son
We decided that he could see Tiago everyday from 11am for a few hours. He comes and picks Tiago up then they go out. He doesnt always come at this time some days he has an excuse but I don't give him a hard time. He had the responsibility to feed him lunch till tonight. when He admitted to me via message that he doesn't follow through with Tiagos routine because he doesn't have to agree with me and my son has lunch at 12 since he was born. I make an effort to have a consistent routine and his father knows this. So I decided to change the times from 11 to 1. Now he is angry and threatens to fight me. What should I do? He has even begun threatening my sister that is 38weeks pregnant. He somehow feels that I'm abusing my right as a mother and he should have Tiago 50% of the time. I don't know how else to tell him that it's not possible. Please some advice?
his visa will be reviewed next year September. He got a 2 year access visa.
he says he feeds him but he doesn't always follow his routine. I'm never with them so I can't confirm that