No I don't want a divorce after being married for 32 years I'm not giving up easily. I feel its only fair I know the address of his flat I now know he is renting. He is still legally my next of kin and if there was an emergency I have no other way of contacting him. He doesn't answer his mobile. Although our sons are adults if anything serious happened to any of us we don't know where he is. The youngest still lives at home. We have a joint bank account and he is spending money on renting a flat while we have a house with a mortgage. I don't know how much longer financially this can be sustained. I do not work I had major surgery and have an on going illness.
I look forward to your response