I thought this was the case. However, I believe that my sisters and I, acting as our late mother’s joint executors, are being unfairly harassed by our stepfather to pay what we consider are unreasonable costs including undertakers costs £2,480.18 (reasonable), Floral Tributes (flowers purchased exclusively by our stepfather) £185 (unreasonable), Press announcements £97.50 & Headstone Engraving & reinstatement charges of £250 (both unreasonable).
Our stepfather refused to allow us any involvement in arranging our mother’s funeral. He agreed to pay the funeral costs from the proceeds of a life policy, which he has had and has now gone back on his word. He has refused to allow us to enter the family home to deal with our late mothers assets, we are aware that he has been giving away our mothers assets to friends, charity shops and other family members, without our consent, which ultimately has deprived us as beneficiaries monies properly due to us.
In July 2011 our stepfather transferred £8,800 for our mother’s joint bank account into his own personal account, which he then closed on the 9th of Aug 2011. This transfer was carried out at a time when our mother was at her most vulnerable, suffering from dementia and without her informed consent. This withdrawal was also made without our consent or agreement acting as our mothers appointed attorneys under an Enduring Power of Attorney registered with the Office of Public Guardian in October 2011.
Our mother only had just over £13,000 in savings when she passed away. It seems wholly improper and immoral that our stepfather should be allowed to harsh us in this manner. Are there any other potential courses of actions open to us? I appreciate you can’t give legal advice put a point in the right direction would be most helpful. CJJ