yes this is a harassment notice
yes it identified the person not to contact, and no not a girlfriend , it is a business acquaintance
The statement that he is not allowed to contact the person directly, indirectly or by any other means is a problem as it is my next door neighbour and it prohibits my son and grandchildren visiting me as we share a communal drive and his visits may be construed as further harassment and may be taken further by the police, how do I ensure that will not happen?
I believe that the accusations are a pack of lies and I am afraid that if he sees my son outside my house that he will call the police again and make more false accusations. Am I allowed to talk to my neighbour or will that be part of the harassment process?