im paying her rent because she got caught claiming benefits for rent . And everything has been stopped .and my kids need a roof.
there is no set times to see them just when she lets me . she has told me not to contact her and to stay away
i was living with them up to a week ago
my wife loves the boys and will do whats expected of her .its her mental state thats very worrying .as she punched me on the side of my head on the 6th of dec , at 6.30 am , while i was changing my sons nappy on my lap , then as i was walking away ,she followed me saying i hope that hurt . she had been up most off the night as usual , still drinking red bull or other stimulant drinks . and was very aggressive towards the boys and me
i believe there is a chance she could hurt the boys as she has told me she has lost it with them before and hit them harder than nesessary because they were playing up ,and she couldn't cope as they were doing her head in .her rages are becoming more and more frequent and uncontrollable
yes she has had all sorts of depression tablets . she is always at the doctors but nothing seems to be helping .
yes she has had all sorts of depression tablets . she is always at the doctors but nothing seems to be helping .she is becoming more and more dependant on the medication just to get through the day
yes i came home from work one day and she told me she was going to claim benefits , because i couldn't afford to pay the rent and all the bills on my wages ,and couldn't care less what i think ,she told them i didn't live there anymore.we were struggling badly after the boys were born .
about a year ago is this relevent to what im asking ?
yes if i was allowed
hi clare ive not recieved any answer to my problem .but u want me to fill in a questionaire
unfortunately i have no savings and im paying out for a loan i took out for her back in 2013 / which is costing me £70 a week / and i pay out £60 a week csa , both finishing about 4 years from now .at the end of the week im left with around £340. then give her and my sons £150 rent plus gas , electric . i would like to move out of the area , but i just cant afford any where.
believe me if i could i would
its for my 15 year old from my first marraige.we split up because she had an affair .
yes ,and because i have no fixed abode , they see it as , i have nothing to pay out,and put it up even more . They don't take anything i have to pay out into account as im now classed as single.ive already spoke to them about it .