Thanks you so much for your reply.
I am always with him at my partners (wifes) house with him, because i dont trust her around him.
I have recording of her slapping him accross the face very hard his milk bottle fell out of his hand he started crying, i also have recording of my son saying she always shouts at me, and also my son telling me she locks him up in the pantry. I have around 15 recordings
She abuses me also and swears at me also infront of our son.
But i am in a situation where at the moment i cant do anything
because i am around her cousins all the time and if i do anything i am in danger
i am just waiting for my sons Christmas holidays to finish so i can have a word with his teacher.
thank you so so much claire
yes for the time being we are living together, but not for lon,im only living with her for the sake of my son. please tell me if i apply full custody will i get it based on the evidence i have, because if i dont get it she will not let me see the kid again, i have to be involved in his life on a day to day basis.
He also has a heart condition called a (vsd)
Yes. He is being seen/monitored by the cardiologist
They have not raised any concerns because she tries to be a good mother to him in front of them. I have not raised any concerns also at the moment to the hospital
just recently she is being very nice to him.
I cannot do anything at the moment because i just dont know if she is
a good mother or bad mother to him
please its very hard for me to make any decisions at the moment.
if i apply for full custody what are my chances
i will appreciate your advice
Iv recently been cleared of a allegations made against me of domestic violence. My wife made these allegations to the police in July 2014, She told the police that i made threats towords her, the police in Yorkshire then released me on police bail without charge, my conditions were not to get in touch with her for 3.5 months. she moved to Birmingham after 2 months in refuge
after 3.5 months apart our parents/uncles/aunts got us to make peace with each other, i then had to leave my job of 10 years, my parents, brothers/sisters/friends etc in Yorkshire and move to birmingham with my son and wife but she has continued to be how she was for the last year or so
As soon as she got the British passport/cotizenship she has made these allegations to make me look bad infront of the authorities and also family and friends.
My life has been destroyed but i will make as much sacrifices as possible for my only son.
Thanks for your advice clare
No im not working at the mo,
i cant trust her around him alone for to long.
i have savings of £2,500 left
when we lived in Yorkshire my mum (his grandma) was caring for our son most of the time, when he had doctor appointments she used to go so she doesn't look bad as a mother, iv also been going along with her most of the time
if i tell social services my wife slapped my son. will i my son be given to me, because i dont have a place of my own at the moment
your advice will be very helpful
If social services find evidence and i get my son will we still need to go to court for child custody, and will she ever get him back from me
thanks for all your support take care, happy new year