The children are 11, 12 in feb and 7 years old.
I feel he is not being honest and genuine and is likely to look at kidnaping the girls and take them to Albania one day. As thats where he is from.
I really dont want nothing more to do. I just thought as he was the father to let him know that our daughter was not well before being diagnosed of her condtion as i was worried etc.. and thought i did the right thing
When we went to court last December. A variation was made to the non molestation order which originally was an indefinite order. This will be fully removed in June 2015.
He wanted access to medical records for my little girl so i agreed to send this information by email, which i did the same day of the court case. We are allowed to communicate via email only and to be civil to one another about arrangements to see the girls. There is no contact order at this point.
He doesnt know where we live etc....
yes thats how i feel.. as i dont trust him and simply because the girls are not ready and willing to meet with him
Yes i was in court too! He made the application to have the Non molestation removed. At the court he also showed contact we made since hes release in prison and my solicitor said to avoid a trail its best to sort this out that day.
Only a variation was made that hes was able to enter to towns and upon the parties agreeing to remain civil towards each other and to arrange any contact between the applicant and the children namely..... by way of email only. But he is asking to meet?
ok Thank you for this information. In the meantime can you tell me the best way to respond with regards ***** ***** email asking to meet. I need to be choosy and careful with the wording as he is waiting to use anything against me.
I sent him an email with the same as you have suggested.
He then replied with this.
Thank you!! Its a possibility he may go back to hes solicitor
The child supporting agency has called me to say that my ex called them and is asking them whether i have changed the childrens surname.
However, I have changed their name but not legally. This was advised by the local police back in 2009 for security reason. It appears he may be fishing for information to either track us down or take this further to court.
Can i get into trouble for this. The passports are still in their born name? Just school and doctors and CSA is changed?