I will wait please as really need some advise on this
would like to know where I stand legally, as she never been interested before, and seems to want to share when it suits her, where would I stand if she does cover all with weed killer, , and going back on her word, on what we had already agreed on as she cant afford it.
Unfortunately, because this is the shared area, she can “pick it up and put it down” as he wishes. If the grass belongs to you because you laid it, and she weed kills the lot, that is criminal damage. If it is your grass then she is threatening criminal damage by threatening to weed kill the lot. That is a police matter although don’t expect the police to be interested because they will say it’s a civil dispute.
You cannot make a claim possession because you occupy the land with consent and share it with others.
If she injures one of the animals by recklessy weedkilling she is guilty of animal cruelty and negligence.
You can only make her pay towards necessary maintenance and not simply tidying up the area. Based upon what you have said it’s probably going to be more trouble than it’s worth to try to pursue that.
The reason that it’s not worth pursuing is that she is entitled to have the hedges and the grass untidy just as much as you are entitled to have them looking smart.
I appreciate this answer is probably unfavourable .
Can I clarify anything ?