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My sister who is a pcso, who i don't speak to, told my ex husband

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My sister who is a pcso, who i don't speak to, told my ex husband that my son should be removed from my care & he should live with his father, she also said that i'm mental & had made my son this way too. My son is 15 & has been very ill with depression & recently tried to commit suicide, all as a result of the disgusting way my family have treated him & I. I work as a teacher & know that if she continues to come out with such terrible remarks & they are heard by the wrong ears it could affect my job, especially if she is suggesting I'm not sane enough to look after my own son, never mind other peoples.
Could I report this to her Sargeant?
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Law
Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.

Thank you question.

I will do my best to help you but I need some further information first.
Who has she actually said these things to other than your ex?
Customer: replied 1 year ago.

She told me I was mental & had made my son like this. But because we are estranged from my family - due to their awful treatment of me & my son & because they are the main reason my son tried to take his life, I've had to keep away from them. She will have said this to other members of the family, but I won't know that because of us keeping away from them, so I can't say.

She very vindictive & I'm worried if she continues to say these awful things, they could affect my job.

Does this count as slander??

Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.

If you can prove that sheiis telling thi so people and it makes them think less of you because of it then yes it would be slander.
However since you believe she is saying this to other family members who already think badly of you then it is unlikely that you could claim that it is slander in these circumstances.
In any event reporting it to her Sargeant would not be an appropriate.
This is not a work matter and she is not say this in her role as a PCSO - but as your sister
If that changes and yo u have evidence that she has used her position to cast doubt on your suitability to be with children THEN that would be an abuse of power that should indeed be reported.
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