Dear Clare, thank you reply.
He is the legal owner of the property.
I had a share in equity which i agreed to accept £13,000 which was paid to me in July 2014 as i was going to leave the property to re locate 50 miles away. However it turned out not to be the best plan so the children and i decided to stay.
He said we could stay and made no mention of what he now proposes.
He has an obligation to meet half of our eldest son's school fees which he has refused to pay now and i am paying them in their entirity.
I have no idea what the outstanding mortgage is .. he says is is about £210,000 but i have only his word and he is not the best at telling the truth.
I think the house is probably worth about £270,000.
All the remortgaging was done when he still lived in the house.
He tells me he earns £47,500 although again.. i have only his word .