Thanks for your assistance.
The anniversary of the separation will be two years as of the first week in April 2015.
As she said that she was filing for divorce and had already withdrew £2500 from the then joint account, I decided I was not paying for the divorce, so was pleased that I just needed to wait to read and sign for consent when the paperwork arrived. As it didn't arrive and I was informed 12-14 weeks by here I have twice queried the situation, and all I have received is excuses, just need to know if she has started the process, if she has I am guessing there is nothing I can do, if she hasn't then it maybe my opportunity to reluctantly pay for this myself, so would want the most efficient but cheapest option.
The grounds for divorce were 5 counts, I cant name them all, but basically irreconcilable differences, drifted apart, different future goals etc etc. As I asked what she was stating as grounds so not to be saying anything wrong about my character.
Like I say its just the timescale that this has been going on that concerns me it feels like I am being blagged some what.
Not sure what else to do to see if the divorce is actually being processed, so I can decide my next course of action