Hi Clare- Apologies for a late reply - I have been away from my PC this afternoon. The house is on the market for £635,000 at the moment - we owe £360,000 on the mortgage. Yes tentatively a divorce is her proposed solution( I am not keen - I want a reconciliation - she has done this many.many times before over 33years of marriage) . My wife and I are fearful of the financial consequences and legal costs of this - so at the moment we are talking about a temporary separation ( for me) - permanent separation (for her).
I am most anxious to know about my rights to access to my home where I have lived with my wife for 25 years. I am the sole breadwinner and always have been - she has a small psychotherapy practice which earns very little ( less than 5K per annum)
Hope that helps. Happy to add more info if you need it
Can you give me an idea about when I will get an answer to my question? Sorry to chase! I am very aware that I delayed my response to you yesterday afternoon! Just anxious to know what to do ( or what I can't do) next.
Thanks Clare - that is exactly what I needed to know - you have been very helpful