No we were engaged.
the house is worth roughlt £170k with £40k of mortgage left.
I am a full time mum of 2 as he has his own business co owned by with his brother both Directors he earns £27k a year but that doesn't not come into our house the bills get paid out of his account and a dd of £1000 gets sent into my account for nursery fees and general monthly living.
The rest of his wage gets withdrawn by his mother and purchases premium bonds with not soley in his name. All savings he has are joint with his brother or taken off him completely. (due to a gambling problem he is not trusted with access to money) I had no idea it was like this as money as he was always defensive on approuching money/saving subject and just assured me we will never want for anything.