no, there has been issues whereby the grandma is not always present and also it was agreed that there should be no other party except grandma and my ex however on the 14 feb there was a lady who was present whom my daughter calls special auntie and said was "daddy friend".The lady told my daughter not to tell me she has seen her and she will get her more toys howvwer my daughter told me. there have been instances where his sisters have come and they make it very clear to my daughter that they cae to drop her toys but I find that hard to believe that as its the same excuse every other week all this has happened within just 6 weeks of it moving out from the contact centre.
I understand courts don't like the centre so even though I will be highlighting all these issues I feel that I am forced to agre to be at the grandparent but disagree on the contact hours being expanded.
as soon as the contact moved to the grandparent my ex already fel he had the authorirty to end letter fromhis solicitor requesting to take her on holiday with the grandmother presnt for 7 nights which I find quite surprising his solicitors have sent as the order clearly states that this arrangement is under review as the courts were aware I wasn't confident with the grandmother supervising but they wanted me to give it ago and it clearly states that I can bring it back to vary the order in the interim if strong misbehaiviour is shown.
I feel like I should just wait for the 22 april and just submit all in my statement saying even though I didn't bring it back to court however I disagree in contact hours expanding
they undermine my mothering skills and I find they can manipulate the situation and create issues when there are none, in the pat thy have told my daughter they will get her a better mum than me... it was the judges decision to have no one present only the grandmother and my ex. as I was reluctant for the contact to move out of the centre
in the past the sistes have been aggressive and abusive towards me and i had evidence text messages where one of the sisters said she is a better mum than me. I am no good mother and also she wil get my daughter a new mumand the fwin report from the police confirmed when they attended a domestic his the police officer observce the family were one sided. also his sister was responsible originally to supervise the contact however she failed and the contact was breached which is why another reason contact was in a centre.