The house was valued at £280000. We owe £76000. I don't know the exact amount my ex earns but it's roughly £30000 per annum. I earn £34000 per annum. My ex has 2 loans - £800 outstanding on one & £840; on the other. I have no idea if he owes anything else I have credit card debt (roughly £15000). I have no idea what assets he has.
2 beds (flats/masionettes) in this area are about £200000. I have also looked at renting but it's even more than buying. My ex is mentally abusing me - I really need a way out but can't see how.
If my ex husband decides to disappear - he has threatened to do this several times- where does that leave me. Will he be liable to pay his half if the mortgage ?
I don't think he will agree to family mediation so which court do I need to apply to. Also do you think it's worth getting in touch with the CSA for maintenance - I know he will not agree willingly?
How do I get in touch with family mediation and is there a cost involved?
I've now been told I'm going to be made redundant in April. How will this affect my court case ( am assuming I won't be able to pay my half of the mortgage and bills?)