He moved in with me Aug 09 and we married Aug 10. We moved house in May 11 but all remained in my name with everything paid for by me. The house is probably worth £240k with £77k outstanding. I have an endowment due to mature soon worth £41k. What sort of other assets? I have a military pension of £1100pm and a salary of £1200pm. He is self employed and has only just started contract work for a company which earns him about £1600pm. He has a car which he pays £450pm for. we had a shop which we liquidated Feb last year, before it closed i tried paying for goods as much as i could and now have a pile of defaulted credit cards to the value of about £45k.
Does it make any difference that he signed an occupancy notice when we moved in 2011 and also that he owes me personally £31k that I have loaned him for personal expenses and failed business ventures? thanks