1. My wife's ex emigrated to the USA not long after their split which was in 1993 so he was not living in the flat that long he asked his brother to "look after everything"
2. I would suggest the property (2bed flat) 50A The High Street, Sidcup, Kent would be worth around £165k-£180k
He is reluctant to forward anything however my wife is on the understanding that the mortgage on the property should be nearly paid up