We have no children
We have no property.
I have debts of £ 3000 credit card, no savings, a gold bracelet and a gold locket. That is all what I have. I live in a rented accommodation.
The matrimonial home was a housing association flat that was given to him before we married, I was made a joint tenant and had to pay the rent and all the bills, he never contributed.
After the break up I moved out and removed my name from the tenancy
I had to start all over again, buy furniture, as the flat that I found was empty.
I have £ 2700 a month, he lives on benefits and receives a disability allowance as well, he had benefits for a long time and now the rent and everything is paid to him by benefits again. I do not know how much he gets now because there is no contact, restraining order, injunction and 3 month tag plus curfew for him.
He owns heavy gold jewellery, worth probably £ 10000 and has £ 8000 bonds in the bank. He might have gotten rid of that in the meantime, I do not know.
I have fibromyalgia and endometriosis. My illnesses got worse from the stress and PTSD and depression with suicidal thoughts and announcements. I will have to be on medication long term. It seems I will not be able to keep this job and at least have to look for a lower paid job within the next few months - with less responsibilities due to my mental problems resulting from the abuse.
He wants everything: maintenance, periodical payments, secured provision order, lump sum order, property adjustment order, order under section 24B, 25B, 25C of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 = pension sharing/compensation
Yes, he has ticked all the boxes
Thank you very much! That takes some of the stress away as I prepare the form E.