I asked her to stop before christmas. She just sent more abuse back, so I ignored them this week.
This was on Monday - my son is Charlie.
Before the kids broke up from school I had Taylor coming home most days saying Charlie was being unkind in one way or another, either snubbing him in front of all the boys or putting him down at sport to mention a few but I kept telling him that Charlie wasn't worth getting upset over and I let it go.I have just got home with the kids to find Taylor very upset as apparently you have been telling other mothers of the boys and they have told Taylor that he is a bully?? Is this correct?This is a very serious matter and I will not have you spreading your poisonous words about my son esp as we have the unfortunate situation that they are going to be at the same secondary school. My son is not a bully and how dare you say he is you nasty little women! And apparently Matthew must be too if they are friends??Anyone of my friends will tell you that I have always said if you have a problem with my child just tell me and I will deal with it. No we most defiantly are not friends but I have said this to everyone in the past so it's common knowledge. I will not tolerate you bad mouthing Taylor like this, how dare you!!!!What is your problem? have you not got anything better to do with your life.. YOUR son has been the unkind one since we fell out, constantly stubbing Tay or putting him down in one way or the other but I just told him to ignore him as he wasn't worth it.Let me make myself very clear Hannah, you are messing with the wrong person if you think I'm going to just lay down and take this from you! And let your son continue to make Taylors last term at Micklefield with his friends an unhappy one.I don't want Charlie being friends with Taylor anymore than you want them being friends believe me! so if Charlie has a problem with Tay tell him to go play with some of the other boys like Andrew and James as they are far more suited in personalities really aren't they?
This was sent to other parents
I have heard that Hannah Higginbotham has been spreading vicious rumors that my son is a bully. He is not a bully and it is a very unkind accusation to be spreading. If anyone has a problem with Tay come to me please and I will deal with him. He is a 10 year old boy with a big personality and I happen to be very proud of him! he isn't perfect but no one is!?He is very upset by this and I would appreciate it if you come to your own conclusions re my son and not listen to a women who is just bitter and has a huge problem with me for some reason.This matter is now with the school.Thank youCatherinePs Apparently Matthew must be a bully to because he is a good friend of Taylors ( according to Hannah )
Thanks for your email. The answer was very helpful. I have emailed her to ask her to stop and I will speak to the school tomorrow. Yes I agree it is very childish, but it is also nasty and I could really do without it!
At what point if it doesn't stop and the school don't manage to help me diffuse the situation can I think about taking steps to get outside help to stop it?
She has already emailed me back in response to me asking her to stop.
As soon as u stop telling lies!!