i dont understand?it is a one sided accusation he has shown them,it could say he has reason to believe i am an alien from mars on it..it is surely not fact,and yet he has managed to persuade them it is.How can this be allowed?
So is there anything else i can do?
My ex husband has text me that he has shown the divorce paper to my son as proof that i had an afair..this is not proof is it..this is his opinion only.He is still accusing me of lying and this is affecting my relationship with my son who believes his dad...please..i cant have history repeat itself...i have always been honest about what i did and i didnt have an afair..there HAS to be something i can do to prove that the divorce paper is not fact...please help me,i am so depressed,i think about taking my own life,i will loose my daughter next and i cant live forever in fear of this man always trying to ruin my life...please give me some thing,any thing i can do..there must be some justice for this long term repetition of stress he causes me.
I need closure to my past .Antidepressants,well being support,3 months of work,now being phased back,new marriage,support from family and friends,i suppose i am lucky.BUT nothing stops the repetition of what he did to me both physically and mentally for 15 years.I live with the knowledge that i should have told the police,strated divorce proceedings myself based on his abuse..and never did..maybe i should have even been honest with my children and family sooner..my children still dont know due to my stupid loyalty to their right to love and trust their father and knowing the truth about him would hurt them grately.I feel i cant move on with my life,especially when he turns the children against me,still after all these years he is constantly waiting for me to fall
Could i be brave now,face the truth,,could i make a case against him for abusing me all those years.how is this done,how can i prove it.If Jimmy Saville victims can...surely i can.I went to a solicitor when my son was born,not long after because my ex threw a heavy basket at me whist i was holding my son..the solicitor wrote a warning letter to him..it was 17 years ago..would they still have it on record.I have friends who saw my bruises and broken fingers and knew he had done it to me,they could testify..my family witnessed his verbal abuse...i cant prove the rape or when he pushed me down the stairs..but i did loose my baby due to that...is there a chance.Would it cost thousands,could he prove otherwise...oh i dont know.I feel i need closure and justice.
except for on initial divorce papers it seems. thankyou. feeling lost now,but at least i know all the facts.