Ok - 2 hours on a Tues night, 2 on Wed night and 2 and a half on Sunday mornings. Occasionally the week nights change to suit us if something comes up and one of us cant do that particular night but then it's made up on a different night. We both own the flat and because I'm on maternity pay until September, then I'll return to work, and he is paying the mortgage and bills but he thinks he should be able to visit more in exchange for what he is paying. I am happy for him to go to the CSA rather than listen to how hard done by he is and how greedy and selfish he tells me I am. Also, this baby was planned but he wouldn't even touch my stomach and was totally uninterested throughout my pregnancy because he was so wrapped up in his new girlfriend, although he denied he was actually seeing her until I got proof.
Hi, I am struggling to understand how it would be in the baby's interest to have to meet this woman in around 6 months time. Could I insist on meeting her the first time so that I can see who my baby is spending time with? Also if my ex takes the baby away does that mean it sets the precedence and would a solicitor have advised him to get a certain amount of hours with the baby in order to be given specific rights. Does taking the baby away for an hour each week give him more rights if he makes demands? He will want to take the baby overnight which will be heart wrenching for me as the baby's eyes follow me around the room when someone else holds him and I know my smell comforts him. Could you please answer these additional questions. Thank you.