I have been a little poorly with eye problem hence delay in coming back you
His allegations are woolly
1) he said that I tried to put his career at risk because I posted a personal mail to his work address. I have never sent him a personal mail. My son asked me to return a present his dad posted to him as he did not wish to have it. He reacted strongly that I should do this as it upsets him and he just wanted to forget, he said he never given him present and he used to cry his eyes out. So I returned the present to the address he posted it from, his work place. I did not know his address, and obviously did not want it known, I included a nice note pleading that he should not look at it negatively as our son was only trying to cope and should be given that chance. i could not understand how that could have put his career at risk. He knows i helped to bu I felt he was just upset that my son returned his present.
2) He said that he left the family in 2009. But his date did not make sense and he left on 11 july 2011. i believe he was trying to make out he left 5 years ago!
3) He said that he left because I work him up at 3 am and I was aggressive and he decided to leave and never came back.
Truth was he had insulted me and my son over 3days and he would go to sleep after. The night he left, the 3rd night I stood up to
him for the first time and told him he'd have to explain himself why he treated us so badly and warned him if he did anything I'd call he police. He knew I was capable of calling the police as i had done so some 3 weeks before. He got up and packed his bag and left. i reminded him ashe walked down the stairs that i told him he would walk by himself as he kept coming back against my wish. That was how he left. he had asked me to promise him I would never call the police again and kept changing the lock back as i changed it.
4) He said that i turned his son against him. he did this by himself due to abuse our son suffered from him behind my back and my son told Cafcass. He was not pleased that his son told cafcass.
These were his allegations.
please reply quickly. Thanks
Getting the divorce on correct basis is a safegard in my case, otherwise I would not bother. I have answered his allegations and cross-prayed. This is the only way I can expose him and his cruelty leading to the breakdown of our marriage. I know it will stop him. He has broken every court order. I need peace after the divorce and a chance to raise my son with ambience of peace.