We had been attending couple's counselling and the therapist suggested , if Olga, my wife is not able to take her part of responsibility, we had to consider separation. She wanted me to move out.... we agreed for a divorce after 2 years of separation, but apparently, made a petition on grounds of intolerable behaviour. I am strongly disagreeing with Olga's view and I can prove her arguments are not true.
As long as I agree for the divorce, I am afraid it might be used by Olga or her mother to manipulate children. It happened to Olga and her sister, they lost contact with their father completely. Olga's sister got divorced 3years ago and I was often witnessing really bad opinions being exchanged in front of her child, between their mother and sisters.
I feel like a court decided about the divorce at the moment of acceptance of Olga's petition, with my maiden name as a respondent...
Hi, about 2 months ago , after decree nisi had been granted
Yes , I think it is better we are not together, but I cannot agree for the way it has happened.
My ex claimed It was my fault and gives completely untruth reasons.
I am afraid it will be used to manipulate our children. I have justified reasons to be worried about that.
Instead of shared cost of divorce after 2 years of separation , it made me solely responsible for court costs. The difference is significant.
Had may name been changed already ? Does it make my all documents not valid?
I feel again being a subject to my ex's decisions, even about changing my name. I cannot understand ,why petition has been accepted by the court?
Is it not my right and will not change or not to change my surname?
It is a cherry on a cake , after she forced me to leave our family home....
I do not think so , all correspondence is being sent to my old address with the name I had changed 15 years ago.....
If I did not change my name , should I even respond to it? am I a respondent?
actually , I do not get letters addressed to Damian Grochowalski. There was a clause in the petition about respondent paying all costs .
yes , the box was ticked
I do not know. People I take my post from, at the old address went abroad.
If it has and I will be appealing reasons , the court took as justified to dissolve the marriage, will they respond to the person with completely different name then in petition? it is not just a misspell ...