yes. the other 2sons were going mad+the son who is 'the boss' said there was going to be a family meeting - which never happened. now, the boss seems to be siding with keith (even tho he told me himself keith is a terrible liar and trouble causer) the other son is the only one who has shown me any support. he no longer speaks to his2brothers and he says he is absolutely disgusted the way i have been treated. he will only come to visit his parents of a weekend cos he wants nothing to do with his two brothers.
yes. i gave my notice in february this year when he first started bad mouthing me. the elderly couple begged me to stay and just to ignore him so i withdrew my notice. now, its just gone from bad to worse and i mentally and physically can't cope no more. i cant cope with the sarcastic comments and the only time he writes in the diary in work, is when he's stirring up trouble for me again or patronising my work. i also feel that 'the boss' has well and truly stabbed me in the back. even the boss asked me to stay in february cos he said that there would be a family meeting - but like i said before, it never happened
yes, i am a part-time support worker for my disabled uncle. this job is not self employed, i work for social services/council.
yes, the job i am talking about is self employed. the boss sorted it all out for me, but yes, i think its for tax and ni purposes
i'm really sorry, but what is ACAS pre-claim conciliation mean?
finally, were do i stand as regards ***** *****? when he's badmouthed me to others (because they come back and told me and the boss what he said/called me)
there are 3 different agencies careworkers who come into the house at different times, who he has bad mouthed me to. he was even involved in one of the care agencies accusing me of bullying and theft and when i spoke to the manager of this agency, he stated that no more will come of this as the allergations were false. so that is 3 company's were i could not apply for work (people gossip) thats why i said earlier on that i dont think i can go to another care job.
thankyou from the bottom of my heart for all your help - your an angel!!