Thank you for your response. My new partner is 39 is also a post lady and has a 13 year old daughter. Her parents are beautiful people aswell. She split from her husband for the same reasons i have split from my wife. The reasons beings that we both were with partners struggling from past demons and unable to deal with them and after getting to know each other both realise we have a chance at being happy again in life. There was nothing untoward happened and no adultery as we both believe strongly in being honest and doing things properly so we both ended our relationships and are now happy together. My relationship has been rocky for the past 2 years as we have lived seperately
I am always with my partner when she is with my son
We work together so time spent is normally after nursery or weekends. My ex wife is currently being assessed for a personality disorder which i would never hold against her in any way she just sent texts friday night saying that she had sought legal advice and that if my new partner continued to see my son she would take things further. She used to be a legal secretary so has contacts but i was sure that this couldnt be the case despite what she said which is why i contacted yourself. I hoped that she would get better and he could live with her again but her irrational behaviour worries me and i have started to consider apllying for sole custody.
I have been in my new relationship for 2 months . My new partner is the rreason for ending my previous as i was just trying to keep things stable for my son although things were far from ideal and i felt more harmful to him than the situation now. My son only knows my new partner as my work friend and he adores her and her daughter. I thought that seperate mummy and daddy time would be a slow introduction to him getting used to a new way of life and my wife has limited time with him at the moment as she is still getting help and as i said is prone to irrational behaviour
Thank you for a brilliant service and for putting my mind at ease i am extremely grateful.