Hi - my ex has the children 144 nights per year. He pays £1250 per month in child maintenance.
The children go to private pre-school which currently costs about £1400 per month. This will rise next year to around £2500 per month. All of which is paid by myself (using the majority of the child support I receive).
He earns around £200k basic plus bonus (I have no idea what his bonus is but has been around the £100k mark in the past).
Am I being greedy to ask for financial disclosure so that the figure is fixed? I struggle to pay for everything (my salary is around £58k).
He wants 50/50 custody and assumes that this will zero out any child support from either side - is he correct please?