has never been physically violent to her. He is fighting outside when drunk and so has been arrested. She has had to leave on several occasions as he has become aggressive in the ho e. Hitting walls and doors. She has been very patient and always hoping that his drinking will stop and all will be well. Over the last few months it has become clear that she or their daughter cannot live with him as increasingly he spends weeks on his bed leaving only to buy more alcohol. He had falls and is at times unresponsive so ambulance has been called. She has now reached the end of what she can or should deal with. If same situation. Arises again and police got involved she probably would make a statement. She is a teacher snd also does not want her name in the local papers.