I think my wife is ill but seems to be playing the situation constantly. No one knows where she is, she is also vague to the children. Going into a refuge is awful and has taken the place away from someone who might desperately need it. Ii offered her our home to stay in and I would go when she wanted separation. She refused. I was kind and helpful the whole time we lived together (as sepetated) and helped her find a house to move to locally. I was her guarantor. Next messages about leave me alone and I will call the police if you make me sign the contract. Out of the blue and irrational ! I think she is trying to create a narrative here to punish me in court / divorce playing the system to get housing. As I said not rational at all. Will this narrative go against me in divorce court if she tries to claim emotional abuse? Thanks
No house we rent.
I earn 8ok she earns 11k.
Kids all over 18.
Hi Clarke. I am sadly coming to terms that this may be final. My wife who I love deeply seems determined to start a new life. It has all happened so fast over just 6 weeks. 8 weeks ago she was telling me she loved me it's been hard. She is though very depressed and suffering ptsd. I hold a small candle of hope she may reflect at a time in the future. All I can do is work on myself, hold on to my job, fight my own depression which I can feel daily and be there for my girls at home with me. Every day gets 1% easier. Just coping daily. I do need to protect myself though and be ready against these allegations.