There is really no reason for me to get divorced. I don't have any plans to marry in a hurry.
I married Kirk in Jamaica on 3rd November 1995 and I brought Kirk to England on 1st June 1996.
I mortgaged a flat in Tottenham before I married Kirk.
I brought Kirk to England from Jamaica in 1996
I sold my original flat and bought another flat in Tottenham and put the flat in joint names. I then remortgaged that flat and bought a condo in Jamaica in 2004. Kirk's name is ***** ***** the property in Jamaica.
Kirk never contributed to the mortgage on Reedham Close. He also never contributed to the service charges on Reedham Close or the apartment in Jamaica.
I have been paying for the mortgage and service charges on Reedham Close and all the Services Charges, Insurance and Bills in the Jamaican property.
Kirk commited adultery and left me on 1st January 2013.
I have a small pension and Kirk did not have a pension two years ago. But I think he now is contributing to a pension now.
Kirk and his girlfriend both work at the same place. Then have been living together since he left me.
I have not been working for the last couple of years. As i suffer from reoccuring depression.
I am living in Gambia since January 30th 2015.
I hope this information is what you require.
Do I have to respond to his Solicitor. Will I get charges. As he sent me an email saying I will be charged as I have not replied to his Solicitor.
I know he wants to definately wants to take the Jamaican property from me and I guess he wants to take the London flat too.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Thanks Janet Gallimore
I would like an on line chat with you. As I have questions I would like you to answer some questions.
Do I have to reply back to Kirks Solicitor.Can I say I do not want to get divorsed
I think you said he could get a court order if I do not respond. Is that right. Does he have to pay money to do this and willI I be liable.
I really would like an on line chat with you. I thought this is how the UKfamioly solicitor worked. not Just one email from you.
I am sorry I have been sick and just come out today to use the internet. I would like an on line chat with you for you to answer some questions. I guess you are not available to answer my questions now. Please get in tuch with me or answer my last questions.
Thanks Jane t
Are you on line?
. As I am in Gambia,. Is he able to send me a court order here. I am really confused about all of of this. Do you think I should come back To England to sort this divorse out.
Thank you for your emails. As Kirk has a Solicitor, can we still arrange to come to an agreement regarding the properties between ourselves. I don't think he will even answer my texts as he did not before.
Caroline are you on line now, so we can chat. Or please give me a time that we can chat on line tomorrow. I would really appreciate that. As there is so much information to be digested.
I hope I can chat to you soon.
OK Caroline. I will make sure Im on line. I am actually on line now. I am not sure why it showed I was not on line.
Hopefully, we can chat tomorrow. thanks Janet
Hi Caroline I am on line now
are you on line Caroline. Im waiting for you?
Yes I am here
Caroline. Can I wait until I get back to UK to employ a lawyer? Or what will happen if I do not respond. Will I be served with a court order?
I am thinking of going back by 15th September. I just had an email about a month ago. But I replied back to her saying I was in Gambia and I would be returning by end of July. Then I sent her another email ion 14th August saying I still in Gambia and looking for a Solicitor here.
Caroline. I cant even find the email. They sent me. But my sister has the letter at my mum's address.
So Caroline, what do you recommend I should do. To be honest, many solicitor's want upfront fees, and I presume both of the properties need to be sold for them to get their fees.
Caroline, I suffer with clinical depression, and have not been working for a couple of years and really not in a position to pay legal fees. Kirk and his partner are both working. I have a small pension, and my only other income is when I get guests in the apartment in Jamaica.
What do you recommend me to do Caroline? Where do I find a Mediator?
Where do I get the acknowledgement of service from?
Caroline what are your fees?
Thank you Caroline. You have been really helpful. I am sorry I've been such a pain.
Caroline, is the acknowlegement of service form the form that was attached to the email.
Do I complete this if I want to agree to the divorse?
Sorry. This is the last question.