I/ we would like court orders in place to be enforced fully ( ex partner has has this clause in there for nearly 2 years to stop harassing my daughter and stop influencing / brainwashing the kids)...but court and social services are impotent. The judge will rely on social services for reports but social services are sitting on their hands looking the other way. See our dilemma. We want social services to warn ex partner...and to co firm their findings to the district court so current court orders/undertakingz are enforced. Our life here has been made a misery by the deliberate mischief and manipulations of the law by ex partner.
Can u please answer my specific questions please. Thanks
Just to confirm the Court ha snot been involved in recent events,, their last court order was from the hearing date of April 28th 2014. The reference to influencing negatively the children was in the court order of 21 March 2013...where it was clear both parents should not speak negatively about each other in front of the children.
What absolutely surprises me is how District Judge Crowe and one other have always refused to consider any complaints and evidence about the children's father in these hearings. Yet it is noted in the proceeding how vulnerable the elder child is! To compound it we have social services totally inept. During 2013 court session-the previous social worker was exposed for making wrong judgements, submitting factually incorrect reports on events to the court (which I challenged before the court), and yet again the judge relies on social services to make his/her decision. Blind justice?
So what can we do to protect the children from the fathers mischief and manipulations? My daughter has not seen her son for 2 weeks now because the son tells his mother- "I dont want to come to you ever" "i will decide when I am 16 and no one can make me".., "I want to stay with my father", and " grandad and grandma hit me"- the last is absolutely a malicious concoction since we have shown the most love to both of the kids. These are examples of brainwashing and emotional harm.
So- 1. how can we make social services accountable. 2. Should we go back to court with the recorded evidence of the kids utterances influenced by their father?
Thanks for the response. im afraid that the judge will dismiss our concerns Again...ignore the mischief of the kids father..and end where we left off over a year ago...victims and losers.
To issue proceedings in court what will it cost and do we need a solicitor. The last 2 solicitors i have to say were poor..missing out key details, not contesting lies and slander from the ex partner, weak representation of facts, and failing to achieve basic outcomes like preventing the ex partner attending handovers or appearing to my daughter. I could have done a better job!
Finally..social services..what do we do about their accojntability?
Thanks. We couldn't afford a barrister! My daughter is a single mother, currently unemployed- the application I guess to court would be in her name.