At least once,,, my g/f was able to raise £90k which was well over the odds but would have saved a load of hassle and money.
Ex said yes but then backed out.
There was another discussion a couple of years ago which came to nothing.
This isnt the issue at the moment really; the divorce is on going and I have a solicitor getting to grips with the settlement.
My problem is that I have a bloke living in my home that the ex has given some sort of tenancy to.
I want him out as I cant get on with my life and have been chucked out of part of the house.
I have been told that I should have total occupation rights to the matrimonial home, she moved out years ago. I don't offer my ocassional house guests a tenancy as it would be dumb..
We have a suspicion that the "tenancy agreement" he has is a licence to lodge really and as she is not the householder and not in residence she cant do it.
They refused to show me the agreement.
If he has no right to stay in my home I could change the locks, as the ex has not been resident for years she doesn't really have free access apparently she can keep out as well.. However even if I am correct in this the police are so on their side that I don't stand a chance.
They threatened to arrest me when I tried to stop him locking his room up [ ex told him to ] , this was 2 days after he shoved me about and they were called then.
I am at my wits end, I have cancelled the mediation as I cant access my own home without threat of arrest. My solicitor is useless regarding this issue, the divorce paperwork is all they are interested in..