Due to information given to council tenant which is also my husband's ex partner and mother to his two children. Me and my husband have been refused contact with both children which has caused my husband considerable stress and depression.
My step daughter called me at work regarding a recharge late 2014 which was raised in my team. I did not know she was a council tenant and gave me her address details in that conversation.
This year both children were classed as adults and as my husband is disabled now, I tried to contact children to let them know of his illness by letter. I them heard from college that my name was mentioned in sociL services meeting and do I know her. When she gave name I knew it was step daughter so I gave my home number to colleague advising if she does need me to call my number.
I then received a phone call from a domestic violence officer a couple of weeks later requesting I try to contact the step daughter as they were concerned for her safety. They gave me a mobile number for my step daughter and I sent a couple of text messages requesting step daughter contact her farther. A few week later I was advised a complaint had been
made against me by my husband ex who is the council tenant saying
that I got her contact details from the work computer database and that I called the police to my husbands ex partners address.
we have lost precious time getting to know my step children and now years later I Am finding husbands ex partner is trying to get me fired and using my son as reason why no contact should be allowed. the information has been given out and other teams in my department have been told to stay away from me which has damaged my reputation.