I am so very sorry to hear about the difficulties that you are experiencing with your husband.
I am a Solicitor and will assist you.
Please may I ask a few more questions:
Are you still legally married together?
When was the last time that your husband was abusive to you?
Is divorce contemplated?
How old is your disabled daughter?
I am happy to call you if you would prefer to talk.
They are an extra charge but I will send you a low offer.