Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall dd my best to help you but I need some further information first.
May I ask why you signed this?
What did you think this document would achieve - and please do not worry all is not lost!
Have you exchanged Forms E?
What assets and debts are there?
How long were you living together in total
What income do you each have, what has happened to the matrimonial home - and can you confirm that neither of you have any assets in joint or sole name?
At the FDR what guidance did the Judge give?
At the FDR the Judge is meant to give an indication as to what the settlement might be
How much were you earning then and now
Does she have a new partner?
When is the final hearing set for
Can you send a copy of the Consent Order that has been sent to the court
So in fact this is about getting rid of existing arrears?
What further disclosure was ordered at the FDR?
The Order will not be signed off unless the D81 is forthcoming.
If it is not put in then the final hearing will go ahead and the agreement will not stand.
If the D81 is produced then I am afraid that you will have to stand by the Consent order
It is not the Promissory Note that is the problem - it is the fact that you agreed to the Order that created it.
My apologies for the delay
I am sorry - there is no away around this UNLESS she fails to give the information OR her real financial position is very different to what she has previously said