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U.K. Legal advice - stealing money to fund a gambling

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U.K. Legal advice - stealing money to fund a gambling addiction.
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Law
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Hi,I was with my girlfriend for around 4 years. During this time I had a very bad gambling addiction. I would take out payday loans, use all my salary to bet with.I would also use my girlfriends money to gamble with. She was aware of this and understandably really unhappy. Even though I knew this I still did it.I would use her debit card to bet online. I also took some payday loans out in her name.I've been paying back the money I took since June 2014. The amount varies from month to month but it's around £500-£700.We ended up splitting up in September 2015 because of the stress our relationship was under because of money worries.I'm still paying her back but our relationship has deteriorated very badly. She threatens to take me to court, tell my parents, friends, post it on Facebook etc.She doesn't give me an exact figure of what I owe even though I keep asking. I am so worried about people finding out and going to prison. She knows this and takes advantage of it with threats.I know I deserve no sympathy and deserve everything I get but I really have tried my best to pay it back. I don't earn a lot and I pay as much as I can. She says I should get my parents to pay the rest and me to pay them but that's just not an option.I really did/still love her but the gambling clouded my judgement and I've did and said things I would never of dreamed of if I didn't have an addiction.What should I do and what is likely to happen to me if she takes legal action?
Expert:  Ash replied 1 year ago.

Hello my name is ***** ***** I will help you.

I am sorry to hear of your situation. Do you have any idea about how much is owing please?

Alex

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
She says roughly £20,000 but I've done skme calculations and I think it's no more than £10,000
Expert:  Ash replied 1 year ago.

You should ask her for a statement of account. If she took you to Court it would be the County Court and she would need to show a breakdown of how that figure was calculated.

So either way you are entitled to a copy of it.

However you cant really stop her from telling anyone - its true. So unless she is going to tell something false or a lie then you cant in reality prevent this.

But if she is saying you either pay me £20k (as opposed to the correct sum of £10k) then potentially this is blackmail.

But she needs to provide a breakdown, if you have been paying you need to know where you stand.\
Even if she went to a Solicitor a breakdown would be needed.

Can I clarify anything for you about this today please?
Alex

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Can I just ask what would happen to me if it went to court? Would I go to prison? She has known about this for years. I'm thoroughly ashamed of myself and I will accept any punishment but I just want to be treated fairly.
Expert:  Ash replied 1 year ago.

No, its a civil matter, she knew about it. She can only take you to Court for the Judgment debt.

Does that clarify? Alex

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Thanks so much for your time.
Expert:  Ash replied 1 year ago.

If this answers your question could I invite you to rate my answer before you go today, otherwise the site doesn’t pay me for the time spent with you. Thanks in advance! Alex

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