Hi, thank you for your question. As you have a residence order in place this entitles you to travel abroad with the children named in the order for up to a month without needing his consent. Just ensure that you have a copy of the order with you when you travel in the event that the border staff request confirmation.
In relation to his harassment and abuse, if the non-molestation order has not expired and he is breaching any terms then this is a criminal offence and you should contact the police. If it has expired and you feel at risk by his actions then you can apply for a further non-molestation order to your local family court using form FL401.
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