Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
What do you wish to happen?
Does he actually WANT to spend time with the child?
Is there any reason why he should not take the child out?
My apologies for the delay
Do YOU have any objection to him taking the child out?
Contact in your home is not good contact for the child - if he wishes to see her then he needs to take her out for a set amount of time and then bring her back
There should be a clear pattern of contact that you can work with so that your daughter knows when he will see her
If your ex is not prepared to commit to such a pattern then you are entitled to refuse to let him see her if he just turns up.
You should try and discuss matters with him using Family mediation
I hope that this is of assistance - please ask if you need further details
Does he pay child maintenance via the CMS/CSA
In that case you need to apply to the CMS to set the child maintenance
You will lose 4% of your payment - and your ex will have to pay 20% of the payment as a fee each time - up to him!
More details here
If that is all he is earning then he should pay you £40 a week
You are most welcome - I hope all goes well