Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further informtaion first
How long has your mother been the sole owner of the property?
Could it be let out?
When did your father die?
In that case I am afraid there really is no other option
Or rather the other options are
1. Pay for the home yourselves as a family
2. Care for your mother yourselves
3. Do the property up and let it and use the income to pay the fees
I am sorry - I do know how hard these choices are
Please ask if you need further details