I am sorry to hear of your loss.
The situation here is exactly the same in Scotland as it is in England. There is no central register of Wills although there have been many attempts to get one off the ground they have been stillborn. If you know that your son wrote a will, and it’s not in the papers that the house, and you believe it’s with solicitors, there is no easy way other than to write to all the solicitors asking whether they hold a will in that name and that address and telling them that if they do, you will then forward the death certificate so that they can send the will to you. It may be that you are not appointed as executors in which case, they will only send the will to the executors.
If the above draws a blank, there is no easy way of finding out where the will is.
Can I clarify anything for you?
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